经典译文赏析:阿斯伯格综合症与恋爱
时间 : 2009-12-08 15:11:45
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Hes gentle, unworldly, highly attentive and charmingly old-fashioned. The catch? The very things that make Keith so attr
Hesgentle,unworldly,highlyattentiveandcharminglyold-fashioned.Thecatch?TheverythingsthatmakeKeithsoattractivetoSaraharesymptomsofAspergers.AnnaMooremeetsthecoupleslivingwiththissurprisinglycommonconditionSarahHendrickxandKeithNewtonsittiltedtowardsoneother,laughingalotanddisappearingdowntheoccasionalalleyofin-jokes,ascouplesdowhentheyrestillinthatearly,besottedstage.
SarahHendrickxandKeithNewtonatSarah’shomeinHove.Hessogorgeoushecouldhaveanyone-butnotforlong,shesays.KeithhasjustarrivedatSarahshomeinHoveandtheyreclearlydelightedbytheprospectofthenextfewdaystogether.Asalways,Keithhasswitchedoffhismobilephonebecause,asheputsit,mytimehereiswithSarah.Theywontseeanyoneelse-Keithhasnofriendsofhisownanddoesntfeelcomfortablesocialising-butplantoeatlotsofchocolate,walkandwatchtelevision.Wespendalotoftimefeelingsmug,saysSarah,becauseweseeothercoupleswhodontlookveryhappy.
Inafewdays,though,KeithwilldrivebacktoWickham,Hampshire,50milesaway,wherehelivesaloneandworksasacomputerprogrammer.Thiswillalwaysbethecase.Despitemeetingfiveyearsago,theywontprogressasothercouplesdo.Theyllneitherlivetogethernorhavechildren.Althoughtheresonlyayearbetweenthem,at39Keithissogangly,gawky,boyishandcutethathecouldbetenyearsyoungerthanheis.
YetSarah-whohadachildat19andhastwomarriagesbehindher-isconfidentthatfewwomencouldputupwithhim.God,hessogorgeoushecouldhaveanyone-butnotforlong,shesays,laughing.Threeorfourmonthsmax…then,whentheconversationturnstohomesandbabiesandbankaccounts,hedbegone!Thetwoburstintolaughter.
Itwasntalwayslikethis.Thecouplemetthroughinternetdatingandthefirststageoftheirrelationshipwasfieryandfraught.ToSarah,Keithwasapuzzle.Hedplainlystatethattheirblissfulweekendswereenoughforhim,thathedneverlivewithherorevenmovenearer.Sarahfrequentlyfoundhimselfish,coldanddistant.KeithfoundSarahhardwork,demandingandscreechy.
advertisementUltimately,onlyonethingallowedthemtostartagainfromscratch-theyuncoveredthereasonforKeithsinsensitivity,hisaloofness,thefactthathecouldseenofuturewithSarahnorseemedtowantone:KeithhasAspergerssyndrome(AS).